I am in agreement
that same-sex marriage should be legalized in all states, the fact that it has
not is disappointing. The states that
have legalized it are sure to see an increase in support soon as that seems to
be how the general consensus is going. This
would allow all religious affiliations to marry as their morals allow them to,
rather than having some people sacrifice something they are morally o.k. with
for someone else's belief. Marriage
between same sex couples is vehemently denied by certain religious groups on
the basis that their morals are more valid than the homosexuals who want to get
married. I for one would like to see
this diminish in a true show of acceptance, toleration, and freedom that we are
assured as citizens of this nation.
But I am disagreeing
that homosexual couples should be given time off to be married. It’s being treated like an issue with a time
limit. And it is not. If a couple gets married in a state, that
changes its laws to no longer allow homosexual marriages to be valid, than
those marriages that were already performed become void, or if you are married
in a legal state, and travel back to another state your marriage will not be recognized. This takes away from the
idea that letting military employees leave for their marriage is an issue of
time. And if there are no inherent risk
of truly losing out on something because they missed a small window of
opportunity, then how can one say it is fair for them to be exempt from their
job, when others aren't. The military
will have to rearrange workers to fill in these scheduling changes, while
refusing to allow straight couples the same reprieve, which is in itself
reverse discrimination.