America undoubtedly
has an unadmitted rape culture problem.
In the past years there have been numerous cases thrown away, or retried
because of some archaic law still being used, or what the girl was
wearing. Despite age, young and old
victims get blamed for their own rape. It
is rarely the person who entraps them, abuses them, violates them while
conscious or unconscious; it is the person who is victimized that takes the
blame.
Continually the act
of rape as a legitimate case is demeaned because of the clothing the victim wore,
how they supposedly acted, or for being unconscious. This way of looking at blame in rape cases
affects how one will report a case, and who will commit the crime. If it is decided by society that someone may
get away with holding down, beating, violating, and distributing pornographic
evidence of the act, and that the victim shall be ridiculed, harassed, and ostracized
for it, then where is the reason for the assailant to restrain? If society holds it up to their morality to
stop them, then it can not be trusted to raise children in a society that
accepts this and teaches them treatment of others is not important if they are
of another sex, or they choose to dress the way they would like that does not
correlate with their opinion of modesty.
A popular punishment
in the instance of rape court cases is community service, or
minimal jail time, usually about 30 days, for a rapist who beats, and violates
their victim/s, while the victim is forbidden from speaking to anyone about the
crime. In the last few years this has
incited many angry protests at judges for essentially giving a gag-order to
someone who has already been forcibly over powered to begin with. The idea of making a victim refrain from
letting anyone know about their assault is an insult to anyone who has ever
been taken advantage of, or who wishes to protect their family.
This is seen in how
our culture views sexuality at all times, if something starts off just a bit
sexist, but generally harmless, rather than outright sexually aggressive, and
something “just happens”, it is often just ignored. If it is not a rape in some dark back alley, by a
masked man wielding a weapon, the situation suddenly becomes a question of the
victim’s outward appearance, which should not be a factor in any case once non-consent
is stated. The idea that victims live by
is that they should be forced to just accept what happened to them, despite the
trauma because it is so commonplace. Why
should this be acceptable, to demean, restrict, and label victims? In the U.S. cases of social acceptance of all
genders, and lifestyles should be upheld as long as they are following the
constitution and laws, but for some reason this is being ignored, and retried
again, and again in our courts with laws that must change.
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